The Big Other is the symbolic order, the anonymous "they" whose gaze shapes how we present ourselves even in private. An internalized audience, a set of expectations that we perform for without even being able to name who's watching. Even when I write in private, in secret, in my journal, I am still not fully myself. Even this note is again just a performance of my awareness of the gaze to the gaze.
keep perceiving
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yummy

Apr 24, 2026 9:46 AM

to reiterate, i love sf!

Apr 23, 2026 9:25 AM

jane remover tix secured!!!

Apr 22, 2026 1:15 PM

got the cutest jacket at the cherry bomb market

Apr 22, 2026 9:19 AM

caught in the rain again

Apr 21, 2026 5:56 PM

i love sf so much!

Apr 20, 2026 10:48 PM

once that OR3 drops and all the girls with broken hearts heal then it will be my time

Apr 19, 2026 11:38 AM

time to suck the marrow out of life

Apr 18, 2026 7:18 AM

ughhhh stupid stupid ugly stupid im so so so upset and im more upset that i’m upset about stupid things and not actually upsetting things

Apr 17, 2026 5:22 PM

did my first open mic last night.

Apr 17, 2026 9:07 AM
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